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#53, March 26th, 2024
Let’s do something a little different this week. Let’s debunk someone else’s advice that I came across on the internet and needed an antacid for.
In this video, LisaTheLoveLifeCoach, “Certified Life & Empowerment Coach for smart professionals who struggle with [heart emoji]” lists three things that purportedly make women unattractive to men. Lisa apparently asked men, though she didn’t specify how many, to fill her in on what they don’t find attractive, and then she extrapolated that into a set of best practices for “the ladies.” I’ll spare you, they are:
No super long fake eyelashes
No super long or pointy fake nails
No lip filler